Choices but no options

Why do I always develop, for lack of a better term, a "crush" on guys who are unavailable or unobtainable? I set myself up for disaster.

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Then there is the guy that lives on the other side of the country. I met him at a wedding. We hit it off, or at least I thought we did. We hung out for a little bit after the wedding. Spent a lot of time laughing and talking in a group setting. The spent some time together alone. But we really haven't spoken since then. That is if you don't count the time that I started a text message conversation when I was drunk. That conversation did last for a day or two though. Can you flirt in text messages? If you can, then I think that was what we were doing. I haven't really stopped thinking about him since I met him at the end of last year. So what is the problem here? 2776 miles to be exact. We live on different coasts. Not to mention the fact that we have only hung out once. The only good thing about this one is that when I get back east this summer there is a chance that I may get to see him.

Wish me luck...